Get over it

Repost @womenforblacklives • Get over yourself Get over ourselves I’d also like to add First Nations lives to this list. White comfort and white tears will never fix this white mess. We need to fix this, and fixing things means that things have to get painful and uncomfortable. #rachelcargle #blm #blacklivesmatter #endwhitesupremacy #bipoc #metis #firstnations … Continue reading Get over it

Baby’s First COVID Test

Baby’s first COVID test He was not thrilled that the gargle was off the table, but he had his swab like a big boy. Now we hide him away and await results! He described it quite well as feeling like getting pool water up his nose LOL #covid19 #swab #swabtest #covidbc #maskedup #braveboy #itsprobablyjustacold #bettersafethansorry … Continue reading Baby’s First COVID Test


It’s been at least a month since I have pulled out my oracle cards. It has been more than that since I returned to my mat. I think it is time to recentre myself. To accept my stress and anxiety, and to sit with it. To stop sitting in it. To take time to be … Continue reading Reflect.

Addiction is hard. Relapse is harder

It doesn’t matter what you are addicted to, a relapse is always shameful and painful. It might be drugs or alcohol, or, as in my case, shopping for things I do not need and cannot afford. It’s easy to say “oh just this one thing is fine”, but one thing leads to two things, leads … Continue reading Addiction is hard. Relapse is harder

Gemini Cycle

I have cycled out. The dark, wet slog has begun to brighten and dry, leaving me free, coated in fine dust. The dust is the residue that resists the cycling out. There. In my hair, on my hands, clinging to my eyelashes, on everything that I have touched or ever will touch. I have cycled … Continue reading Gemini Cycle

Rest In Peace, Justice Ginsburg. And above all, just rest.

Justice Ginsburg was a powerhouse, and continued working into her late 80s to try to keep the bench as balanced as she could. No one should go through the pain of late stage metastatic pancreatic cancer, while also knowing that the balance of power in her nation depended on her ability to continue to do … Continue reading Rest In Peace, Justice Ginsburg. And above all, just rest.

Fake It Til You Make It

Fake it til you make it! This week the kids are back to school and we are trying to get back to normal. I decided that the best way to feel like I was going to work as normal was to dress like I was going to work as normal. Over the last couple of … Continue reading Fake It Til You Make It

14 Years

14 years. We have been married for 14 years as of today. The social média thing to do would be to write “14 years married to my best friend!!! No one else I could imagine on this crazy journey called life! I will spend every single day holding your hand, baby!!!! I love you soooooo … Continue reading 14 Years

Happy Friday!

Happy Friday! It’s September, which was always an exciting time for me. My sister suggested a couple of years ago that September is another New Year, and since then, that is how I have tried to approach it. This New Year, I am continuing to be mindful with spending/saving, I am continuing with educating myself … Continue reading Happy Friday!

Back to School – COVID édition

Back to school 2020 is a bit different than previous years, but the perfunctory first day of school photo is an old standard. We painted that door red for our girls’ first day of preschool 9 years ago, and every year less and less of it shows up in their pictures are they grow. Today … Continue reading Back to School – COVID édition